Ways to Boost your Sex Drive after Childbirth
1. Practise some self-care and rest, rest rest rest
A hot shower and sleep are sometimes all it takes to make you feel a little closer to your pre-baby state. Think of something you could do alone that would make you feel great, and do it. make sure you are not so stressed during the day, get a bouncer, swing or rocker with music (see prices here) to keep your baby engaged so you are not so stressed during the day.
Rest is crucial for a new mum because Once you are tired your body can't respond to any sexual stimulation
3a.Your partner’s seduction techniques may need some tweaking
Be open about what you need. Tell him what he needs to do to get you to be horny, and let him take his time during foreplay
“Even a date in front of the TV together or spooning in bed will help you feel closer—you have to carve out the time to do that, If you’re starting to notice that you’re withholding simple acts of intimacy (like cuddling) because you’re worried your partner will think it’s a come-on, be kind and as honest about it as possible.
4. If sex is feeling like just another chore on your insurmountable to-do list, it’s important to ask yourself this: How good, exactly, is the sex you typically have with your partner?
“Think about what kind of sex would motivate you to have sex, If it’s far from the actual sex you’re having (or not having), it’s time to have a talk about your needs and what feels good—and what doesn’t—now that your body has changed.
“One good sexual experience can be very reparative,” But if you’re having trouble connecting to your past sexual self, it’s OK, she says. “You might need some more time and space.”
6. If your baby is sleeping in your room OR BED, be honest: Is it affecting your sex life?
“Some people can’t imagine having sex in the same room as their baby, Use it as a chance to play around—a couch makeout or a steamy kitchen session could really crank up the heat. Get a crib, cot or co-sleeper (See price here) to keep baby in and free the bed.
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